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Well bro ,you talk big big things like our country ,trust ,relationship etc. where was your trust when you visited porn sites,xossip with your wife ,it does not suits you, this is another typical Indian hypocritic mentality where they do everything but does not accept it .you visit porn sites with your wife ,this is also not allowed as per our customs ,where was your customs/country etc. then ..
Is visting sex sites with wife still a Taboo in our country. There was sex books then now sex sites. So does visiting sex site break trust or loyalty?? So you mean visting sex site is same as fucking another person ?

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You've been married for 5 years.....you can voice your concern whether it turns out to be true or false. Do not be afraid...you will prolong your problems.

After 30 plus years of marriage, this has worked for me. Yes, I too had a doubt in my younger years. I will never know whetehr it was true or false but from her behavior towards me afterwards, over a week or so, I was satisfied that the issue was cleared. In my mind, if there was something going on, she realized that I suspected something and that her marriage was more important, so she gradually came back to me. If there was nothing going on, I certainly angered her, but she would calm down after a few days and be back to normal, understanding the point that each party needs to voice their concerns and feelings in a marriage.

So whether you have evidence or not, you need to talk to her. Once she knows that you know, she will either stop or tell you sooner or later that she wants to leave. If there is nothing and she finds out about all your tracking gear, it will be another problem....that you do not trust her. By speaking to her now demonstrates your good will, trust and love.

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Is visting sex sites with wife still a Taboo in our country. There was sex books then now sex sites. So does visiting sex site break trust or loyalty?? So you mean visting sex site is same as fucking another person ?
Marriage is religious term and you need to follow religion ,do you think your religion(if you are religious) allows to watch porn with your wife.ask yourself ,Regarding sex books,you do not need sex books to learn ,how to do sex ,animals also don't have sex books but they know how to do sex ,nature has given everyone automatically but in humans religion comes and comes marriage and what is allowed and what is not allowed is there in every religion ,why you are showing that you are religious to outer world accept the reality that you are not religious ..simple and straight forward.

In religion ,it is called subtle sex even if you think of having sex with another person ...religion is very hard to follow ,it is not dog's business

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Marriage is religious term and you need to follow religion ,do you think your religion(if you are religious) allows to watch porn with your wife.ask yourself ,Regarding sex books,you do not need sex books to learn ,how to do sex ,animals also don't have sex books but they know how to do sex ,nature has given everyone automatically but in humans religion comes and comes marriage and what is allowed and what is not allowed is there in every religion ,why you are showing that you are religious to outer world accept the reality that you are not religious ..simple and straight forward
I dont undestand the logic behind your post. Religion is not against sex. After all India is the land of Kamasutra. If sex has become a taboo now it doesnt mean sex in a sin. And as I said visiting sex site does not give license to fuck around. And if you think religion prohibits sex then you have to brush up your ideas about religion. You seem to have more problem with me visiting this site more than my wife cheating.

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I dont undestand the logic behind your post. Religion is not against sex. After all India is the land of Kamasutra. If sex has become a taboo now it doesnt mean sex in a sin. And as I said visiting sex site does not give license to fuck around. And if you think religion prohibits sex then you have to brush up your ideas about religion. You seem to have more problem with me visiting this site more than my wife cheating.
No,I don't have problem, you can do what you want in your life .Regarding Kamasutra ,it is demons literature and not part of any religion,if you read it ,you will be fucked totally

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No,I don't have problem, you can do what you want in your life .Regarding Kamasutra ,it is demons literature and not part of any religion,if you read it ,you will be fucked totally
I said sex has nothing to do with loyalty. Do you really believe women dont talk about sex or read about sex. If today's women read about in even in villages women talk to each other about sex even in older days.That didnt mean they had right to cheat

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I said sex has nothing to do with loyalty. Do you really believe women dont talk about sex or read about sex. If today's women read about in even in villages women talk to each other about sex even in older days.That didnt mean they had right to cheat
Religion has boundations that means what is allowed and what is not ,you are only allowed to have sex,talk with your husband/wife only and dnt allow other guy/gal talk in between ,if you are not able to control then simply don't try to be religious or use the term marriage etc. Now ,look,you did mistake and it has fucked you ,you are fucked up .Now ,enjoy all fantasies with her ,try gangbang also because you are now out of religion and free to do anything

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Religion has boundations that means what is allowed and what is not ,you are only allowed to have sex,talk with your husband/wife only ,if you are not able to control then simply don't try to be religious or use the term marriage etc. Now ,look,you did mistake and it has fucked you ,you are fucked up
I dont know what to say. Dont know whether visiting this site gave her idea to cheat me. But its done already and I cant take it back. i just want the way forward. But what I believe is just reading sexual fantasy drives a woman to fuck around then basically she was waiting for a chance or not in true love.

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I dont know what to say. Dont know whether visiting this site gave her idea to cheat me. But its done already and I cant take it back. i just want the way forward. But what I believe is just reading sexual fantasy drives a woman to fuck around then basically she was waiting for a chance or not in true love.
yes,visiting, watching,thinking gives drastic change in mind ,the more you explore sex ,you leave religious things far behind ,what you call trust ,relationship etc. will be gone and you are in the hands of sex only and it's not easy to leave ,you can open newspapers and read the crime rates happening ,it is only because they explored sex more than what nature has given them .nature is far more intelligent than you

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yes,visiting, watching,thinking gives drastic change in mind ,the more you explore sex ,you leave religious things far behind ,what you call trust ,relationship etc. will be gone and you are in the hands of sex only and it's not easy to leave ,you can open newspapers and read the crime rates happening ,it is only because they explored sex more than what nature has given them .nature is far more intelligent than you
You have a belief that sex is some sort of demon. But I believe people are bad not sex. Your philosophy doesnt stick with me. Even if my wife had cheated me its her mistake and not the mistake of sex or religion

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